Last week, I decided to do what many dudes do on Tinder: get straight to the point. Now—not every guy I’m matched with goes in straight for the date, some like to be chatty. But most exchange a few niceties before asking for my number and seeing when they can buy me a glass of Pinot Noir. (Saturday, at 8 p.m., in the East Village, if any tall, successful, kind-hearted man is available out there. Somewhere. Anywhere. Anyone. Bueller?)
My friends and I are sort of the opposite: We ask about where he’s from, where he lives in the city, what he does for a living, how long he’s lived here, what his social security number is… (Joking.) But really, even as a confident, outgoing gal, I almost always wait for a guy to make the first move.
Yes, even on Tinder.
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